small disclaimer: please, to whomever reads this post, please feel free to express yourself in the comments. I like learning new stuff and hearing different opinions. (I’m assuming we’re all adults here and know how to give opinions without being jerks about it.)
And yes. I know. I fucked up.

Well, since I was raised in a (very) religious family, I’ll quickly explain what my mother, grandmother, grandfather, aunts, uncles (…) told me:

The woman he marries must be a virgin” Leviticus 21:13

Oh, you wanted more Bible verses given to me by my family? Hahah, nope. That was it. That was the only line that they told me. They also said “your body is a temple. Don’t let anyone ruin it”.
And yes, of course there are many other verses that talk about promiscuity and sexual immorality, but hey. Those are quite ambiguous terms… Which I will discuss some other day, or I will probably never get to the point of this blog post. (Got serious issues with getting to the point).

Just an FYI

According to Oxford’s dictionary:
<<Promiscuous
adjective,
Having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.
2 Demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual.
    2.1 Consisting of a wide range of different things.>>

<<Immorality
noun,
1 The state or quality or being immoral. Wickedness.>>

Moving Forward (Fucking finally)

I was told plenty of times that if I ever let a guy touch me before marriage, I’d lose my value as a woman… and maybe even as a person…That I’d never get in heaven because that would make me a whore.
As I started to grow up, it seemed more as… the other way around. Like, if no-one wanted to be with me because I was this “pure” girl.

Well… Today a bought a pregnancy test.
I lost my virginity with my current boyfriend, 3 years ago. It was awkward -for both of us. Then it became great.
Let me emphasize it:

Great.

We’ve done it. In many places. Some that at the moment seemed as the best idea ever, and now it’s a bit embarrassing to remember.
We’ve done it, with and without my period…
And yes, with and without… uhm… you know… condoms.
Here’s a few links explaining our… not very correct… methods.

  1. Planned Parenthood
  2. Bed Sider
  3. Kids Health
  4. wikiHow

Always. wear. contraception. 

Always.

Don’t be immature pieces of shit that think that are inmune to getting STD’s or pregnant.
THINK about the possible consequences.
When we did those idiot methods, we didn’t get very nervous when I had small delays (my period wasn’t yet “stable”, and… we we´re –are– morons). So, I literally overdosed myself with vitamin C, and shoved my vagina with herbs to induce my period. (I’m sure it worked because of something called FUCKING LUCK).

A month ago, we had unprotected sex (surprise, surprise), and then waited for my perioud to come (now it’s more “stable”)… Two days delayed, three… four…
Seven… we didn’t tell anyone.
Luckily, he was calm. He said that whatever happened, we’d be in it together.
We got a pregnancy test.
Negative.

Two weeks, three weeks… Four… Still no period.
Fuck.
Fuck, fuck, fuuuck, fuck.
I didn’t tell him. I didn’t want to freak him out.

Mom… Uhm, yeah, hi?
I just got another pregnancy test. I’m scared… 

Her first question: –WHAT DO YOU MEAN “ANOTHER”?!?!
Second question: –How did it go? Do you want me to come and get you?

No mom, I’m still working. Thanks. Love you.

I grabbed my phone, sent my boy a message…
My period never came after the day we got the test done. I just had myself another one… Just wanted you to know that there is a slight possibility I have something wrong in my ovaries… We need to start being responsible and buy condoms. Like, for real.

Dudes. Always wear a condom. Always make sure that you have a condom. WEAR A CONDOM. Get INFORMED by what being an idiot can do to you and your partner.

Girls… it is true that our bodies are temples. TAKE CARE OF IT for heaven’s sake.

 

 

 

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4 thoughts on “On Cherry Poppin’ and Unprotected Sex.

  1. So now that I see you are 19, I have a slighty unrelated comment about sex and whatnot.

    When I was 19 years old, back in the day of December 25th, 2002; I was having sex with my then girlfriend and for some reason I believed her.

    When I was 20 my kid was born. When he was about 3 we broke up for the eighth time and she got married to some dude in the military. And from there my kid spent the last 10 years being dragged from Washington State up to Alaska, down to Texas, over to Florida, and back to Washington.

    I have a great post about that if you care to find it, I think it’s called ‘Restless Night’.

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  2. Ok, so…I’m not a girl, can’t speak from a girls perspective; but after the few things you mentioned about religion, I fail to understand why more people don’t become Atheists.

    As far as the sex goes…I’m not going to tell you what you already know.

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    1. I’ll write about that topic some other day *wink*
      But yeah, I understand you. I think that sometimes people just find the rewards after death so comforting, and the stories so incredible, that a few “prohibitions” are not a problem for them ( also, nowadays people find many “loopholes”, so they excuse themselves from “sinning” and still believe that they’re the purest beings…) did i explain myself right?
      Thanks for your comment *smiles*

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